Why are more couples moving in together earlier than ever before? According to Mayflower’s 2026 “Going the Distance” study, changing housing costs, remote work flexibility, and the rising expense of travel are all playing a role in how relationships and relocation decisions are evolving.
For many couples in New York and New Jersey, long-distance relationships are no longer financially sustainable. The study found that couples spent an average of $6,888 traveling to see one another before deciding to move in together. Additionally, 31% of respondents said they were combining households specifically to reduce living costs, while 25% said the rising cost of travel directly influenced their decision.
At the same time, the emotional side of moving remains incredibly important. Eighty-five percent of respondents reported feeling excited about moving in together, while 63% said they felt hopeful about the future. However, moving also brings stress. Nearly one-third of respondents reported experiencing what they described as a “moving mental breakdown” during a previous relocation.
For couples relocating to or from the New York metropolitan area, proper planning can dramatically reduce stress and improve the moving experience.
Apartment and Co-op Moves Require Extra Planning
Unlike many parts of the country, moves in NYC and Northern New Jersey often involve building regulations, elevator reservations, certificates of insurance (COIs), parking restrictions, and tight move-in windows. Planning these logistics early is critical.
Professional movers who understand the unique challenges of metropolitan relocations can help reduce delays and protect belongings during high-density urban moves.
Tips for Couples Combining Households
Before packing begins, couples should take inventory together and decide:
• Which furniture pieces fit the new space
• What duplicate items can be donated
• What sentimental belongings should stay
• Which items should be placed into storage
Reducing duplicate items before moving day can reduce labor time, simplify unpacking, and lower moving costs.
Why More People Are Moving Within the Next Year
The Mayflower study found that 46% of respondents plan to move within the next 12 months, showing that relocation demand remains strong heading into peak moving season.
This aligns with broader housing trends identified by the National Association of REALTORS®, which reports continued movement among Millennials, Gen X buyers, and remote workers seeking lifestyle flexibility.
How Professional Movers Help Reduce Stress
One-third of respondents reported previous “moving nightmares” involving broken or lost belongings. Working with a reputable moving company can help reduce those concerns through:
• Professional packing
• Organized logistics
• Dedicated move coordination
• Secure transportation
• Storage solutions
For couples starting a new chapter together, having a trusted moving partner can make the process significantly smoother.
Planning a Move Together in NY or NJ?
Whether you’re relocating into your first apartment together, moving across state lines, or combining households, early planning is one of the best ways to reduce stress.
Explore Molloy Moving & Storage’s moving checklists, packing resources, and relocation services to help make your next move easier.
FAQ’s
What should couples do before moving in together?
Couples should discuss finances, inventory belongings, measure furniture, and create a shared moving plan before relocating together.
How far in advance should movers be booked in NYC?
During peak moving season, movers should ideally be booked 6–8 weeks in advance in the New York metro area.
What are the biggest moving challenges in NYC?
Building regulations, parking restrictions, elevator reservations, and traffic are some of the most common moving challenges in NYC.
Why are more couples relocating together in 2026?
Rising housing costs, expensive travel, and remote work flexibility are encouraging more couples to combine households sooner.
